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How to deal with rules you disagree with
While some rules were important when you were younger, they may not apply in the same way now. Here are some ideas around how to address these decisions:
Let your parents know how you’re feeling and why you feel the rule is unfair or not appropriate anymore
If there is no room to change the rules right away, give it some time or start with very small changes
See if there is any room for compromise or negotiation now that you’re older
Try to understand the lesson behind the rule or talk to your parents to understand their intentions
Try to talk it through and get a different perspective
It can help to bounce your ideas off somebody you trust. Here are some potential sources of support you can talk to:
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